Did you ever heard about the works (fruits) of the flesh guys?
Works of the flesh are the desires from our human nature. Do you want to know which are these desires? You are going to learn it now...Immorality, revolt against what the soul considers pure and righteous, lust, idolatry, hatred, arguments, jealousy, envy, anger, discord, rivalry, drunkenness, gluttony. All of these, they satisfy the flesh desires of a person, but it displeases God. The Bible says that everyone who does such things, will not enter the Kindgom of God "...and the like; of which I tell you beforehand, just as I told you in times past, that those who practise such things will not inherit the Kingdom of God."
Someone who has the Holy Spirit, does not do what he/she wants, because the Spirit of God guides them, this way the desires from the flesh cannot obliged them to do such things, as they have self control.
Those who born of God, they have the fruits of the Holy Spirit...do you want to know which are these fruits?
Look what the Word of God says... : "...the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering (patience), kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law.